Thursday, April 11, 2013

Mah Besties!!!

We start out life with friends. You know, your neighborhood kids, classmates  who are your first friends.  OR maybe, if you are lucky, your first friends are your siblings.  But I have found that my definition of "friend" has changed dramatically since I was 7.

I think it has taken me until the past year to really "get" what a true friend, a REAL friend, actually is.

I have the pleasure to say I truly have the 2 best friends....EVER.  They are WAY better than your best friend and I will fight you on that.  I get honesty out of them both.  And not superficial honesty.  You know that "oh yeah that shirt isn't your color" bullshit.  The real "I love you but...you are being a dumb ass.  Stop it. Now "  And the balance I achieve from the mixture of their wisdom is perfect.  One, God love her, is a pessimist...she likes to say realist...which, yeah, but a pessimistic realist.  :)  I get support and excitement and love from her with a dose of "keep it real though.  I don't want you hurt."  The other is much more "yeah...just have fun!"  And I need BOTH of that.

These girls would jump into Hell and throat punch 1,000 demons for me.  I know this because they have been there standing next to, and in front of, me as I have battled demons this past year.  They have been there for me to cry, to yell, to bitch, to scream and just laugh at the stupidity of it all.  They have been there to celebrate (and boy do we know how to celebrate!) to have fun and just hang out.

My 2 best friends are more than friends.  They are family who have stopped what they were doing to help me at a moments notice.  These bitches are my rocks.  They mean the world to me and just as I know they'd walk through Hell for me, I would definitely reciprocate.  We'd be all throat punching demons and schtuff...

Hacked!

Believe it or not, I wrote out, like with a pen and paper, a blog post today in my down time.  But before I could even get to it, I got a message from a friend who checked my blog to find it full of porn and ads!


I WAS HACKED!!!

So my disclaimer is....if you saw them before I deleted them. I apologize.  Unless you found it humorous.  In which case...you are welcome.